Do you really know how to flirt with men or do you just wish that you did? If you’re in a room full of singles, do you hold your own with members of the opposite sex, or do you feel like no one even knows you’re there? Would you like to know how some girls can flirt so successfully that they have guys vying for their attention? Well, I’m here to tell you that you too can learn to flirt with men and do it well.
A lot of girls have the wrong idea about flirting. They think that they have to make a spectacle of themselves to get a guy to pay attention, but they don’t feel comfortable doing that. Flirting doesn’t mean getting in a guy’s face, or wearing clothing so tight he can’t help but notice you.
Actually, when done right, flirting is all about being subtle and understated. Here are three proven ways to successfully flirt with men.
Stay Away From The Obvious
Always remember that when it comes to flirting, less is more. When you’re flirting, you’re keeping him guessing, making him think about what you might mean. You should never come right out and be obvious. The whole point of flirting is to get him interested in you. One way to accomplish that is by keeping him curious.
Flirt With Body Language
Flirting isn’t only about what you say. It involves what you don’t say too. You can communicate your thoughts and feelings with body language. The way you look at him over the rim of a glass, that tiny private smile that you let him catch a glimpse of, the way you touch his arm as you’re talking.
All of these and more send a clearer message than wearing a revealing top. There’s a reason why body language is called the language of love. Learn how to flirt using body language and you’ll be surprised how easily you will attract men.
Know When You Should Draw Back
The best time to draw back is when it looks like he’s ready to step up the game. That’s what flirting is all about. He leads, but you don’t necessarily always have to follow. By drawing back at just the right moment, you leave him wanting to find out more about you.
If he knows that the only way he’s going to find out more is to ask you out, then he will. But even then, play it cool and leave him guessing. By learning the right way to flirt with men, you’ll meet a lot more men and have a lot more fun doing it.